When is it time for a sex game?

A sex game can be great fun, for a number of reasons, to be played at a number of different occasions and the trick is, to use your imagination! You can find ideas for adult games on the internet, in books that can be bought at many sex toys shops and in your own mind. If it sounds like fun, play the game and have fun!

You may be wondering when a sex game would ever play a part in life. Well, how about hen nights or stag nights? I have been to many hen nights where a sex game has been incorporated, and considering a hen night consists of mostly women, with the occasional stripper, it was surprisingly good fun! We played quiz games where the questions were of an adult nature and to show that you knew the answer, you grabbed one of the rabbit vibrators that were in the middle of the circle we were stood in. It doesn't have to be rabbit vibrators either, you should use your imagination, and any vibrators could have been used. And if you really fancied spicing it up, why not try using anal sex toys which needed to be grabbed to answer the question!

Stag nights are also a good time to incorporate a sex game into everyday life. Why not have a theme where you all go out dressed in bondage wear or with various adult toys scattered around the party venue that need to be found in order to win a prize? There are millions of adult games doing the rounds on the internet, and you could always make up some of your own if you do not like the adult games that you have already found.

As well as hen and stag nights, why not use a different theme for an anniversary? If you are bored of doing the same romantic dinner or candlelit bath routine, why not send the kids to the babysitters and have a night of naughty the different kinds of sex game? These adult games can be as saucy as you like, and could involve you being dressed up in bondage wear or other outfits. The night could also incorporate you using various adult toys such as vibrators or even anal sex toys in various games, perhaps with one of you being blindfolded!

If you fancy spicing up your relationship a little, why not have a party with your friends, where the theme is sex and a sex game is played. Again, bondage gear could be the theme of outfit, and you could recommend a rule where every person must bring something bought from sex shops. Most adult shops will accommodate many sexual preferences so those who are unsure could bring along something not quite so "rude" such as penis shaped ice cube makers or whatever. Again, you could hide various sex toys around the party venue to be found for prizes, or even have people blindfolded to try and guess what it is they are holding, such as rabbit vibrators and anal sex toys. The possibilities are endless, you just need to use your imagination, and if you are struggling, try taking a look in some adult shops or on the internet for a few ideas. You never know, you could incorporate a sex game in to your next birthday party or anniversary treat!

risky sex review & advices

Risky sex
Wise up to the most common sex scenarios putting your welfare at risk.
"He says he'll pull out before he cums"
The so-called 'withdrawal method' should not be considered a reliable form of contraception if you're trying to avoid a pregnancy. Firstly, the sticky drops of fluid ('pre-cum') that start to come out of the penis when it becomes erect do contain sperm, and it only takes one sperm to cause a pregnancy. Secondly, it's easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment, and he might not be able to hold back anyway. And finally, unprotected sex places you both at risk from sexually transmitted infections. Using condoms will give you better peace of mind.
When it comes to sex, does drinking booze increase your chances of taking risks? 
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"I don't have any diseases, I don't screw around"
Unless you are both in a stable and monogamous relationship, and have already been tested for all STIs, there is still a risk. It is possible to have a sexually transmitted disease and not even know that you're infected, especially if you're female. Also, if your partner has been unfaithful to you, they may well lie about it and try to cover it up. Some infections can be spread by other contact, such as drug users sharing dirty needles, so even a virgin can catch something likeHIV or hepatitis and pass it on.
"You'd do it if you loved me"
Sex is all about choices, and consent. If you really don't want to do something, don't be scared to say no. A decent, caring partner will understand and respect your decision. If anyone tries to pressurise you or force you into doing something you don't want to do, think hard about whether you want to continue the relationship. You may decide that you're better off without them, no matter how much you love them. If a boyfriend or girlfriend threatens to dump you for not providing sexual favours, give them the shove first, and don't take any emotional abuse.
"I was so out of it, I can't really remember..."
Although nobody has the right to do anything sexual to you without your consent, if you're getting completely off your head on drink and drugs on a regular basis, you could be putting yourself at risk. It's easy to forget about safer sex or even general personal safety if your judgement is seriously impaired. Some people just need to cut down a little, but for others it's a complex issue that relates to their self-esteem. On a similar note, although drug-related sexual assaults are rare, it's worth knowing how to protect yourself, and look out for your friends.