Do you find that your bedroom routine is becoming pretty - well, routine? You always head up to the bedroom for sex and you are doing the same sexual positions and the same movements and sex is starting to become a little too boring and predictable.
Sexual intimacy is a huge part of any relationship. It can bring us closer together, give us self confidence, and be a release of energy that is so desperately needed sometimes. So you don't want your sex life to fall apart. Here are a few naughty things that you can try in bed tonight to spice up your love life and bring back the fire.
Role Playing
This is a huge turn on for both people in the bedroom. The trick is to figure out who is more dominant and more submissive in the bedroom and then use that to your advantage to turn you both on. You may feel a little funny at first but once you get into the role it will become extremely sexy and easy to stick to it.
Examples include naughty massage therapist and willing patient, perverted doctor and turned on nurse, and bad student and mean teacher.
You can also do this outside of the bedroom and pretend to be strangers that meet at a bar or restaurant and end up coming home together for a one night stand.
Talking Dirty
This can seem like it might be role play but it's really not. When you talk dirty to your boyfriend or girlfriend it shows that you are completely in the moment with them and not some role playing fantasy person that you are pretending to be.
Examples of talking dirty are telling her or him how dirty they are because of the way they are in bed or telling her or him how much you want them and what you want to do to them in bed.
Playing Games
This doesn't have to be during the act of sex but can be used as foreplay instead. The more turned on you are for sex the better the sex will be.
An example is watching a movie together and doing something sexual to each other every time a certain word is said or a character comes on. By the time the movie is over you will be hot and ready for sex.
Another example would be buying a game from the sex shop that has you do a certain act every time you roll dice or move on a game board. This too will get you excited and ready to get on to the sex.
The more turned on you are the better.
Doing It Outside of The Bedroom
Use your house to your advantage and have sex on those perfectly helpful stairs or bent over the couch. Use the kitchen table for something other than eating or possibly eat something you normally wouldn't off the table!
There are many areas and tools around the house that can help you spice up your sex life and make you feel naughty and excited.
Doing it Outside of The House
This doesn't have to be in a dirty restaurant bathroom but it can be as simple as having sex while camping or even just heading out of the house while it's dark to the nearest tree covered field.
Not only will you get the excitement from the thrill of getting caught or seen by someone but you will feel the sensations that you can feel while you are inside including the grass and wind on your body.
Start adding some excitement to your sex life by using some of the above ideas at least once a week.
Sexual intimacy is a huge part of any relationship. It can bring us closer together, give us self confidence, and be a release of energy that is so desperately needed sometimes. So you don't want your sex life to fall apart. Here are a few naughty things that you can try in bed tonight to spice up your love life and bring back the fire.
Role Playing
This is a huge turn on for both people in the bedroom. The trick is to figure out who is more dominant and more submissive in the bedroom and then use that to your advantage to turn you both on. You may feel a little funny at first but once you get into the role it will become extremely sexy and easy to stick to it.
Examples include naughty massage therapist and willing patient, perverted doctor and turned on nurse, and bad student and mean teacher.
You can also do this outside of the bedroom and pretend to be strangers that meet at a bar or restaurant and end up coming home together for a one night stand.
Talking Dirty
This can seem like it might be role play but it's really not. When you talk dirty to your boyfriend or girlfriend it shows that you are completely in the moment with them and not some role playing fantasy person that you are pretending to be.
Examples of talking dirty are telling her or him how dirty they are because of the way they are in bed or telling her or him how much you want them and what you want to do to them in bed.
Playing Games
This doesn't have to be during the act of sex but can be used as foreplay instead. The more turned on you are for sex the better the sex will be.
An example is watching a movie together and doing something sexual to each other every time a certain word is said or a character comes on. By the time the movie is over you will be hot and ready for sex.
Another example would be buying a game from the sex shop that has you do a certain act every time you roll dice or move on a game board. This too will get you excited and ready to get on to the sex.
The more turned on you are the better.
Doing It Outside of The Bedroom
Use your house to your advantage and have sex on those perfectly helpful stairs or bent over the couch. Use the kitchen table for something other than eating or possibly eat something you normally wouldn't off the table!
There are many areas and tools around the house that can help you spice up your sex life and make you feel naughty and excited.
Doing it Outside of The House
This doesn't have to be in a dirty restaurant bathroom but it can be as simple as having sex while camping or even just heading out of the house while it's dark to the nearest tree covered field.
Not only will you get the excitement from the thrill of getting caught or seen by someone but you will feel the sensations that you can feel while you are inside including the grass and wind on your body.
Start adding some excitement to your sex life by using some of the above ideas at least once a week.
