Sex weapon

Do women have too many weapons to use against men sexually? I had a little conversation about this recently with a caller I’d like to call “Eddie Haskell”. You remember Eddie, the suck up with motives on Leave it to Beaver. I love old classic shows.

Anyway, “Eddie”, the caller of mine, and I discussed all the power I have over him. I say it’s a talent all women have, and that many just do not know how to use it. Eddie, in typical form told me “No it’s just YOU Lynnea”. Sure Eddie, and I bet my dress is lovely too.

Men have these teeny little buttons that can be easily pressed which will send little signals to their cocks. This signal reminds them that #1 they either must touch you, or #2 they must touch “the cock” themselves.

As a woman, I have many weapons to use to push those buttons. It’s not so simple as having tits, an ass, and a juicy pussy. Those items are the BIG prize and a special privilege… it’s the subtleties about a woman that make a man want her.

Like…. The way she flips her hair, the scent of her perfume, the way she bats her eye lashes, the way she licks her lips, the way she dangles her shoe off her toes, the way she glances at you, the look her flawless skin, the way she tilts her head at you when she talks, the way she licks an ice cream cone, the way she crosses her legs, the obvious pedicure she has, her thong peeking slightly out of the back of her jeans, and so on and so on and so on.

You get the point don’t you? Just like my “Eddie Haskell” caller says… Lynnea (me!) knows exactly how to rope in a man with her feminine weapons. What she does with you once she has used all of her sexy weapons on you… is TOTALLY her choice.

Would you believe me at all if I said I wasn’t a tease? Nah… didn’t think so, but it was worth a shot!

Quick Sex Positions She Won`t Forget

There are some sex positions that are more arousing then others for women. While the trusty missionary position is a good way to show affection and keep eye contact, there are many other positions that she will feel just as close to you and get some added arousal as well.

The Mare's Position

Even if your woman doesn't necessarily like to be on top, she may enjoy this position. With this position you can either be sitting back on your hands or lying down with your legs straight out in front of you, while she sits down facing away from you. If you stay sitting up you can kiss the back of her neck or shoulders while she does a slow movement up and down. Also, if she contracts her vaginal walls while moving up and down, then both of you will experience a unique feeling that is not often felt while having sex.

Congress of a Cow

If your woman can touch her hands to the floor while bent over standing, then she is going to love this position. This is a variation of a popular rear entry position. Have her support herself with her hands and her feet while you 'mount her like a bull'. Hold on to her waist during this position to offer a little more support to her. You will be able to penetrate her deeply with this position.

The Opened Position

This is a variation of missionary that will give her great stimulation due to her clitoris being fully exposed to the friction of intercourse. Have her lay on her back and raise her body up. She can support herself on her shoulders and feet. You should be on top of her, but try not to put too much pressure on her as she is trying to hold herself up.

The Pressed Position

This position shortens her vagina, so it is good for guys with shorter penises or for guys who just really want her to feel it. You have to be careful not to thrust to hard with this position though as you can hurt her and possibly turn her off forever from it! Have her lay on her back and bend her legs up to her chest. Her feet will rest on your chest. You should be on your knees and very close to her in this position.

The Half Pressed Position

If she finds that it is hard for her to keep both of her legs bent in the pressed position, then you can vary it by only having her bend one leg to her chest and allow her to stretch her other leg straight out over one of your legs.

Things Women Expect In Bed

A lot of times when men and women disappoint one another, or worse, get into fights, it' s because of mismatched expectations.

Let me give you an example: my friend Karen just had her first anniversary with her husband. She was very excited, of course.

She spent a lot of time shopping for a fun, sexy gift. They went out together for dinner and afterward came home to unwrap their gifts.

She' d gotten her husband some cologne and a leather thong she expected him to model for her later that night. He got her a blender. (Needless to say, she wasn' t interested in seeing him in the thong!)

Because Karen expected something fun and sexy, any gift that wasn' t what she was expecting would come as a disappointment.

The choice of an appliance in particular communicated to her that her husband thought she belonged in the kitchen making frozen margaritas rather than in the bedroom. Now, he didn' t mean this with his gift (at least not consciously) but that' s the message he sent to his wife.

Now, the idea behind this is pretty straightforward: if you know what a woman expects in bed, you can be fairly sure not to disappoint her! So I' m going to explain three things women expect from you so you can live up to your end of the bargain.

Oral focus

Women love to be kissed. The lips and tongue have millions of nerve endings all waiting to be stimulated. (When you' re with a man or a woman who really knows how to kiss, you can feel it all the way down to your toes!) Touching your partner' s mouth with your fingers is also wildly sexy.

If you don' t kiss your woman during sex, she' s liable to think that something' s wrong that you' re thinking of someone else, maybe.

Some guys refuse to kiss a woman after she' s gone down on him. I have to say, this is the fastest way to losing your oral sex priveliges! If your partner isn' t picky about putting her mouth on your genitals, you certainly shouldn' t be picky about kissing her afterward.

There' s another aspect to this oral focus: too many women complain about lack of oral sex. I personally love going down on women, so it' s hard for me to understand the attitude of a guy who' s afraid of putting his lips and tongue on a vagina. Guys, if you' re not giving your women oral pleasure, she' s not going to be 100% happy in bed.

Furthermore, let me let you in on a little secret: if you go down on her, she' s about 500 times more likely to go down on you! Quid pro quo.

Another thing you should know: it' s okay to talk during sex. It' s even better to talk dirty sometimes. Sometimes women get freaked out when men are too quiet.

Love the whole body!

I' ve been in bed with guys who forgot there was anything more to me than my vagina and my breasts. This is a big mistake even if those are your favorite parts ; )

Women are sensual all over. They don' t want just kisses and touches on breasts and clitoris. Touch the hair, lips, thighs, butts, hands... you get the idea. One great way to do this is with a sensual massage. All you need is some warm massage oil and about 20 minutes try to touch every part of your partner. It' s great to wrap up a sensual massage with a V Cream clitoral massage...

A lot of women have hang-ups about their bodies. Telling your partner that she' s attractive, that you love her body, goes a long way toward making her feel more comfortable with you.

A little patience

Don' t be too eager to finish up. After all, sex isn' t over after your orgasm, guys! It' s important to make sure your partner is satisfied before saying good night. If your erection flags after your orgasm (don' t worry, it happens to most men), be prepared to use your hands, mouth or a sex toy (and also V Cream) to help get your woman off.

Okay, now here' s a related complaint: one of the biggest I hear from my friends. Right after sex, guys either:

fall asleep get out of bed for a drink or a sandwich jump into the shower

Wait just a second here! After sex is the best time to cuddle up and be truly intimate. The next time you' re ready to hop out of bed, wait just a few minutes.

Talk to your partner and touch her and let her know how you feel about her.

If you can satisfy these expectations, your partner will never feel like my friend Karen did when she unwrapped her anniversary blender!

Female sex secrets

Most of the things about woman are not well known to men when it comes to activities in bedroom. This is because not all women will be so open to share their feelings with their male partners. Not all women have the same sex drive and this would vary from one woman to other woman but still there are certain things in sex that all woman agree upon.

It is highly recommended to encourage your female partner to talk about her wants so as to have a better sex life and this is proven scientifically too. Here are some of the tips that you can use to have a good sex life with your partner.

Woman love period sex
This is a general truth about woman but still there are some rules in this act. Partners in sex need to be clean and showered before this act of sex. A woman is bound to have a temporary vaginal dryness especially if your woman uses tampons. There are chances that you might experience a bit uncomfortable friction if she has used tampons just before sex. In such cases a lube would be more helpful. Though woman warm up quite quickly for sex, a dry sex could be painful to her and it is not advisable to straightly drive into her in such circumstances. In such cases, a period sex has more advantages derived from the hormones but there are some obstacles in this as well. Don't ever drive straight into that of your woman until and unless you have some kind of vampire desires or fantasies as she is sure to knock you out of the way.

Woman never like never ending sex
There is no meaning in driving a never ending session. No woman would ever love such kind of love making session. A man should not feel great of a longer holding capability. There are love machines, but they are also made of rubber and plastic. But humans are not machines and that's exactly a woman wants from you. Having an orgasm is always loved by a woman, but having two is sure a bonus for you. This of course does not require lengthy efforts to achieve an orgasm. Every woman has a limit and it should be understood from her feelings. Let her relax in your arms and then enjoy the smell of her hair as she relaxes. She will make you know if she wants more.

Woman don't love fingering at times
Men should understand the structure of a vagina so that they can derive the maximum pleasure out of it and also induce considerable influence of sex on the woman. A vaginal entrance has more number of nerve endings that any region deep into it. Make use of this knowledge for a lovely sex session. The main objective is to drive her crazy, which requires sticking to these zones. Never move away from these zones, which form the outside regions of vagina, just inside of it and of course the G-spot. One should not be harsh in this activity. It demands gentleness. A woman would show her wish for a deeper penetration by pushing herself onto you. It could be uncomfortable for her to have a hand or half of it jamming her entrance point. It is always better to ask her if she requires more fingers. It is advisable to have clean fingers that have trimmed fingernails.

Explore new things
Woman love exploring newer things and would never intimate the same to their partners of sex. There are certain things that women are afraid of and those may include anal sex, anal fingering, bondage, fisting, sex in the outdoors and also role playing. There is nothing so difficult or hardcore associated with these activities. Every normal man and woman does this and get lovely results out of it. To make things easier, you may swap out a sexual to do list with her and understand what she would love to try. Make this a mutual activity and you would sure to come out with newer ideas in having sex and enhance your sexual life with your partner.

Women are horny in the morning
Generally morning times or those times when it is important to wake up can be good periods for having a lovely and memorable sex with your woman. Just try to push your erected sex organ between her thighs such that it brushes her vaginal lips. Now just keep rubbing her lovely vaginal lips with your erected organ and you would see that within short periods of time she would open it up and let you in. this is to make her aroused from a refreshing sound sleep before 8 am in the morning. Even having a oral sex can work out better, but it is highly enjoyable with a thigh trick as explained before. Use saliva or any other lubricating agent to moisten the penis before the act which would enhance the sexual arousement in your woman. A woman would feel so good to have her man inside her just after a good sleep. This activity of a morning sex needs to be done only if your partner of sex is keen in doing so as not all would love to have it. There are some tips that can be effectively used to encourage your female partner in having morning sex with you.

Every woman is different and so are her likes and dislikes and also her ideas of having sex with her partner. It is important to understand these ideas from her through ways of playing games with her like those of board games that have the ability to put out these ideas from one's mind. They are also good to increase communication with your partner and thus help understand the ideas better. It should be understood that a good and better sex can only be achieved if things are put forward by both the partners openly and honestly.